Loving Possibilities:

Unplug from the Past & Ignite Your Relationships Like Never Before

As a kid, do you remember saying to yourself, “When I grow up, I’ll never treat my kids the way my parents treat me”? Or, you might even have said to yourself, “I won’t ever treat my spouse the way Mom and Dad treated each other.”

We believed that, as adults, we’d behave differently with our partners, our children.

You felt it back then, didn’t you, as a kid? You felt … knew there had to be a better way to be in a relationship. To be with someone who’s important to you.

Now, years have passed and you find you’re doing just what you said you wouldn’t.

You find yourself reacting EXACTLY the same way one or both of your parents did when you were a kid.

Chances are you have a better appreciation for some of what they did. You know, the whole “The older I got, the smarter my parents became” thing.

On the other hand, the things that you do that you know you shouldn’t haunt you every time you re-enact those scenes from the past with your current partner or child. We don’t want our present lives to be driven by ghosts from the past, and every time we act out those old patterns it reinforces those feelings of shame, helplessness, and even anger.

And that can create even more tension, more dissatisfaction, more resentment or blasé in our relationships.

Sound All Too Familiar?
I’ve been there.

For the first 10 years of my marriage, I had no idea how much my past with my family of origin was running my marriage.  I already had so many years of being so in love with my wife and my children, yet I was a workaholic spending 70 hours a week at work, doing what I thought was an excellent job of providing for my family.

I didn’t realize that I was actually doing everything I could to avoid having to face my pain within myself, to try to be a good father when I felt so ill-equipped to do so, and to be the man that I felt my wife deserved but couldn’t possibly be me.

Through doing this workshop, I found out that it wasn’t really the mature, wise, and heartful man that was showing up most of the time.  Instead, it was a young boy inside me who’d experienced so many years of feeling like he couldn’t do anything right or be enough for anybody.

15 years later, my wife and I (now entering our 30th year together) remain deeply in love, still full of respect and appreciation for each other, and we work through issues that come up with my fully empowered man in charge of my life and role in the relationship.

The moral of the story: the only way to bring our best and highest self to our partners and honestly live the real “happily ever after” is to be … or become … a grown-up in our relationship.

I want to share with you…
…what I’ve learned, that has helped so many people like you and me … to grow up in our relationships, and enjoy the life you want to live today … rather than echo a past that didn’t fulfill us.

Through my Relationship Recovery Coaching, and my Growing Up In Your Relationships Retreats, you can:

• End the vicious cycle of repeating your parents’ relationship mistakes
• Stop struggling with your partner over the same issues time and again
• Discover the hidden beliefs, habits, behaviors, and perspectives trapping you in relationship-damaging patterns
• Regain and enhance emotional and physical intimacy
• Gain a whole new appreciation and love for those closest to you
• Find fulfillment in your relationship with yourself and others
• Jump into life with enthusiasm again

In the Retreats, you actually break the patterns that got you where you are today and get on the road to creating new ones that invigorate you and revive, renew and release the fullest potential of your relationships.

“Geoff helped us increase our closeness and connectedness through exercises that we still follow at home. We learned how to improve our communications, enhance our sexuality, and deal more effectively with anger and control issues and with emotional disconnects. Geoff has an amazing ability to hear “between the lines” and to explain each of us to the other, thus facilitating our creation of the future we want together.” – Ann & Roger Graham, San Diego

You really can:

• Get past the stiff, surface conversations and express fully and openly what your partner really means to you
• Release unexpressed resentment and jealousy and embrace your children from the heart
• Get clear and get (consolidated) on how you both want your relationship to look and feel
• Tap your reserves of joy, passion and connection to get more connected in the challenging times and build the good times into great times

Perhaps best of all,
it doesn’t have to take another three months or
three years of therapy.

You will start enjoying the relationship you long for and deserve in just three days.

I will show you how to stop and/or prevent your relationships from going awry. Whether you’re concerned about your relationship with your partner, friends, children, family, co-workers, and – of course – yourself, you’ll walk away with invaluable solutions.

“Geoff’s workshop WILL change your life. . . In the week after I did his workshop, my career shifted dramatically. Not too long after that, I was united with THE love of my life, and it only gets better! . . . I felt deserving & available to the best life has to offer.” – M. Luthane, LA, CA

Here’s why we’re able to accomplish so much in your relationships and life in so little time.

One of the most important elements that sets the tone for an adult relationship is the ability and willingness to see things for how they REALLY are.  The workshop provides an opportunity to compassionately see how your relationship REALLY (right now), how you WANT it to be, and how the roles and expectations that you’re both unconsciously bringing to the relationship are continually sabotaging things.

After you get a strong grasp on that, you are shown ways to stop that from happening, to more effectively design the relationship that you really have been wanting, and restore things to their rightful, adult balance and joy.

We have gotten extraordinary results…

“Geoff is able to cut to the heart of the matter…yours and his. He has an amazing intuitive ability to guide men and women along their life journey. We have attended a number of workshops facilitated by Geoff, in addition to doing ongoing Relationship Coaching with him, and we unhesitatingly recommend him. His depth, skill, and commitment are at a level far beyond the ordinary. We have gotten extraordinary results in both ourselves individually, and in our marriage, working with Geoff. You won’t find many like him, really.” – Sean & Diane Atsatt, Santa Cruz, CA

This is your chance to be the author of the next chapter of your life story, rather than perhaps feeling like an extra in your own play.

Bring your passion back into your life. Bring your play back. Bring you back. You can do it, and I’m honored to help

If you have questions before you sign up, feel free to call me at 303-953-9215 or e-mail me now at admin@geofflaughton.com.

Still feeling hesitant? I understand. It can sometimes seem like a giant leap from where you are now to where you want to go. Let me help you get over the hump.

To get new tools you can use right away to make a positive difference in your relationships, click here to schedule your complimentary 45-minute Relationship Breakthrough Session.

There is absolutely no obligation, should you choose to take advantage of this consult.